Lately I’ve been having some problems in my marriage. I’ve talked to my husband about some of the stuff, but some things I don’t know how to approach. And even the things I do try to talk to him about, he just acts like he doesn’t want to talk and doesn’t take me seriously. do you think it would be childish of me to just write him a letter to tell him exactly how I feel>
I have suggested marriage counseling, but he doesn’t think we need to go

Kick him in his nuts and tell him "we need to talk"